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You can hate feminism and be anti-badMen, being anti-badMen = common sense and =/= feminism at all. Plenty of tradwives, mothers and anti-feminist girls were also all anti-badMen, they definitely did not support licentious men, pimps, criminals, perverts or creeps of any degree, and such. Because they knew the net negative effect on society letting bad men get their way has. Even patriarchs and good men did not support bad men and creeps. If not who’s saving and whiteknighting you then?

Also a true “patriarch” is a strong, assertive, valorous man who uses his power for the common good, he loves to work for his wife’s submission and puts his woman’s marriage and motherhood needs first over his own ego’s wants. This is what all women champion, it is possible to rag on bad men while posting a “salute you sir” to every committed veteran with a doting wife and brady bunch of children. Nuance, unless you’re saying bad men = is men being men and we’re stifling their true nature if we don’t let them cheat or do any licentiousness, of course.

Also, a true patriarch LOVES. He will want to emotionally connect with his wife and cuddle after sex even if its icky. If love is not in the marriage in its purest form, then its not soulmates.

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